Just like fingerprints or the textures of the human eye, every person you see is unique. Everyone has a unique mind. The way they think or act. People react or overreact in different ways to different situations. Just because you don’t get angry or overreact or take anything to your head or take it personal doesn’t mean anyone else shouldn’t or won’t either. People break in different ways. People are happy in different ways too. People mourn differently. People celebrate differently. God made us all different. You can not just define everyone in your own ways and color their stories in your colors. They have their own colors, their own stories. Quit targeting your thoughts, your views at other people. And quit force-writing their stories.
Embrace ambiguity instead.