Showering people with material things isn’t love. You can’t ignore people, hurt them, and make up for it with a brand new watch or a bracelet or lunch with the words like “I love you.” Or “I miss you.” You can’t just prioritize yourself over people and do this. At least have the decency to be true to your nature otherwise.
Trust me there are other and finer ways to showing love and they work like magic. Like getting to know people, because you can’t love someone if you don’t know them. Understand them, care for them, be available to them when they need you. Don’t keep it all limited to Facebook posts. There’s a life outside social media too.